Does penis size matter?
Some say yes, some
say no. It is a matter of continuing controversy. Men and women
argue this point, and magazines have frequent articles on this
Sometimes size simply does matter and Gina from Los Angeles
has this to say:
"I have been dating a man who I think is wonderful. We have so much
in common, and everything is great. The problem is that when we have
intercourse, I can't feel his penis inside of me. There is also no
contact with my clitoris. It doesn't matter how long he goes, I
can't feel his cock.
With other partners, I can reach orgasm within a couple of minutes,
but he is so small, I just can't. I feel embarrassed going on about
specifics, but his penis is about 4 1/2 inches long and very thin. I
try to tell myself that it doesn't matter, but the fact is that I
deserve to have good sex and to have orgasms.
Not only can I not come, but I am worried that he can't feel much
either, which makes me feel like less of a woman with him. I don't
know what other women do in this situation, but I'm confused and
upset. This guy and I get along so well, and everything is so great,
but the sex is so unsatisfying. What can I do?"
There are a few things they can try, but unfortunately first she has
to be able to tell him what the problem is - and that is bound to be
uncomfortable, and to put a strain on their relationship. Can you
imagine how difficult it would be for a woman to tell a man she
cares about that she can't feel his penis during sex?
After they have talked about the problem, they can talk about
solutions so that Gina receives the sexual stimulation she needs to
feel good about their physical relationship. There are penile
extenders available at most sex toy shops, or they can be bought
online. There are small vibrators designed to stimulate the clitoris
during intercourse or at other times. Her boyfriend can use a
vibrator and masturbate or perform oral sex before or after
Also there are penis
enlargement techniques and programs. First off,
there is surgery, but that is expensive and intrusive. Most men
would not willingly undergo surgery, nor should a woman ask it. Then
there are mechanical enlargement techniques such as penis pumps and
stretching rings. These can have some effect, but can also weaken
and tear the delicate tissue of the penis. Some doubt that these
pumps can be effective, and there are differing opinions as to
whether such mechanical techniques work.
There are also exercises like the jelq and some special kinds of
stretching. These exercises can have some effect, but require both
knowledge and regular effort. Lastly there are penis pills, which on
their own usually have a great effect and can increase the size of
Obviously in some situations, size can make a difference, not only
in terms of the quality of sex, but also as far as the comfort
involved in the relationship.
Enlargement techniques and programs.